How Being Cheated On Almost Destroyed Me
While a few maybe lucky to experience true love and loyalty, us unlucky ones go through the rough road of getting cheated on. Some of us sadly stay and some of us are smart enough to leave that a**hole. Whether we’re gone past this experience or we’re stuck at it, one thing’s for sure, it’s the heaviest feeling one can go through. It’s life changing, it’s breaking.
“You’ll be scared to stay cause it’s ought to happen again and you’ll be scared to leave because you just can’t imagine yourself being alone after years of having someone.”
Why does it affect us so much? Because we know that we gave our all and it just went to waste. Imagine giving everything you’ve got, physically and emotionally, getting flushed down the toilet. It’s a heck of weight. I personally went through cheating myself. My ex-boyfriend cheated on me three times in our three year relationship. Since it was my first ever relationship, I was definitely scared. You’ll be scared to stay cause it’s ought to happen again and you’ll be scared to leave because you just can’t imagine yourself being alone after years of having someone.
“Don’t worry, you will heal.”
What’s worse is that after the experience we get so scarred. There will be trust issues. Even if you end that relationship later on, you will be so scared and you will just doubt a lot of things in your next relationship. Don’t worry, you will heal. Personally, I healed through my relationship right now. The trust was different. It’s like I’m a new person. So don’t panic that you’ll be scarred for life, the truth is it’s a lesson we go through and a life changing event that will make you even stronger than you have always been. When you meet the right person, everything will just fall into place naturally. No doubts, no lies, and no betrayals. Maybe not now, but eventually.